Hold several opinions on everything, the perfect world outcome, is that legal, is it possible today and if not, what is the most reasonable outcome for everyone?

To be willing to live in the grey in every opinion you hold, by exploring other’s point of view, why they hold that and trying to compromise in your own head gives you a perspective that no one can match.  By holding multiple points of view, you then develop a well-rounded, well thought out point of view that is defendable.  If you cannot defend your point of view, you should not share it.  We have enough people making wild claims and statements that disrupt our society is such a way that we must do our best to lower the temperature on an individual level in hopes that eventually that will lead to a societal change that will better our country.